I received a nice email from Lain Ehmann the other day and responded.

Before I hit “send” I realized that this information can probably help more people, so I asked Lain if she would mind if I shared the discussion here. She’s a sweetie and said “go for it”.

Here’s the conversation…

Hi Nicole-

I was thrilled to discover your success cast. It’s very educational and inspiring. I just listened to the Susanne Myers Interview, and she had so much great content and advice! I like hearing what Internet marketing “gurus” have to say, but I always take their advice with a grain of salt – after all, it sometimes seems that the only people making money online are those telling others how to make money online! But her story was so true and honest, and she’s actually been there in the trenches doing what she turns around and suggests to the listeners. Wow!

I listened over and over and took notes about her advice on what she’d do if she had to start over from scratch. Amazing!

I would like to learn more about how to get incoming links on my website, but I haven’t found much on that topic.

Can you possibly help steer me in the right direction?

Also, I was interested in knowing if you sponsor any training programs, or if you do coaching. Out of all the Internet marketers, I think I resonate most to what you have to say. I love how much you love your mom, too! It’s so sweet. You’re a real person, not some used-care salesman.

I believe in offering quality content to help people improve their lives, first and foremost. I don’t want to automate a business selling something people don’t need, or take part in some shell game or pyramid scheme. You seem so honest and real, and that matters to me.

Thanks for all you do-

Lain Ehmann – www.getscraphappy.com
Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be good.

Hi Lain,

First of all, I LOVE your blog. I just got sucked in when I clicked through your link. Your writing is very genuine and heartfelt. I love it.

Second, thank you for the kind words. They mean the world to me.

As for your question, my belief is that 80-90% of your efforts during your day should be spent “off” site, rather than “on” your site. Yep. That means time spent actually marketing your products and services Well, that is IF it’s a blog that you want to make money. Personal blogs are different, of course. But, the ones that need traffic to support your family – be doing at least one marketing activity per day (that not counting blog commenting or time on Twitter).

My awesome Arika said she sent you the link to WebTrafficBasics.com to help you with some basic link building – it’s an older course and needs to be updated, but it’s still solid, and still free.

As for me, my one-on-one coaching rates are really high – just to try to protect my time a bit, so I really hesitate to send you to the page. I mostly work with infoproduct sellers who have a stream of income that I can help them to boost.

Probably the BEST and most affordable place to learn link building is at Lynn Terry’s private elite forum. A few months ago, she held a link building incentive (monthly challenge) and everyone asked great questions and it generated a TON of information. I even learned a thing or two.

My link is: www.nicoledean.com/likes/elite

I’m a member there, as I mentioned. If you join, send me a quick Direct Message (DM) through the forum if you can’t find the link building challenge post and I’ll shoot you the link.

Also, if you post a question to the group and want me to personally answer it, you can DM me with a heads up that you’d like my input. I do that for people who join through my aff link, as a way to give back and say “thank you”.

There are $300-$3000 courses that I could recommend, but I think you’ll get more than what you need in that one forum thread and the resources that come along with it

Warmly,
Nicole